|By Rodney Brooks, @perfiguy, USA TODAY|
Baby Boomers are divorcing at a surprising rate, and that will have huge implications for their lives in retirement.
The number of divorces among people 50 or older doubled from 1990 to 2010. And in that year, one in four U.S. divorces was in that age group.
And while the experts say it's a product of, among other things, longer life spans, Boomer divorce will affect retirement lifestyles.
"Gray divorce can be economically devastating for some people, especially for women who have been out of the labor force bearing children," says
But it's a problem for everyone involved. Here's why.
That pool of money that was going to fund retirement for a couple will now be split in half, and must now fund retirement for two people living separately. That costs a lot more. And that means people must either temper those retirement lifestyle expectations or delay retirement.
"You have the same pool of assets that has to sustain two sets of retirement," says
The biggest problems, planners say, is that it costs considerably more to retire as two single people than as a couple.
"That means you will have to delay retirement or save a lot more in these last few years," Wheeler says. "Or reduce your lifestyle. Often that is hardest for people.
"If they are planning on retirement at 65, and they are 60, it may push them back to 67 or 68," he says. "And those are the ones who have done (financial) planning. Those that didn't are even worse."
Post-divorce, you take separate vacations; you have two cars instead of one; and you make twice as many trips to see the kids, Duran says. And costs may be even higher if you consider medical expenses, he says: If one person gets sick, the former spouse is no longer there to help take care of you.
"These are people getting towards the end of the careers in the labor market," says
Some recommendations from financial planners to help steer through divorce in the later years:
•Hire a financial adviser when you hire a divorce lawyer. Let them work together on a settlement that well help you ease into retirement. "One of the things they do is, they get divorced before they do any retirement planning at all," says Wheeler. "That is one of worst mistakes they can make."
•Don't give up; there is still time to save. "Even if you divorce in your 50s, you have 30 years to rebuild your savings and investment," says
You have three choices, Duran says. Increase your savings and go back to work. Reduce your spending, and agree you both will live in smaller homes, travel less and eat out less. Or third, agree you are going to leave the kids less money.